More Singles Want Marriage—and Majority Say AI Will Never Replace Real, Human Connection, IU Study

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In the last few years, AI has replaced jobs, taken over mundane tasks and enhanced security systems around the globe. According to a recent study, however, one thing that it cannot replace is the deep desire, need for and value of close, significant personal relationships and camaraderie, such as marriage.

A study from Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute, released Sept. 14, 2026, showed new data, some of it not surprising, but other findings were extremely interesting and telling. The institute’s 15th annual “Singles in America” survey reported nine key findings:

1. There is a renewed interest in committed relationships and marriage.
2. Love at first sight is rising, but so is the slow burn.
3. Economic insecurity is influencing relationships in different ways.
4. Most singles under 50 did not say they want children in the future.
5. Openness to fertility treatments and alternative options for having children is declining sharply.
6. Differences are no longer dealbreakers, but politics is more complicated.
7. Stability is a sought-after trait.
8. Rejection is becoming more subtle.
9. AI is becoming part of dating.

Beyond these nine takeaways, this survey is known as the nation’s most “comprehensive and longest-running annual study of single adults.” Surveying more than 80,000 people across the U.S. was made possible through funding from Match.

The most compelling and interesting findings from the study showed that while 30 percent of participants believe AI could improve human connection. While that may be the case, more than two-thirds of the people surveyed, 66 percent, say artificial intelligence cannot and will not replace human connection. 

Additionally, the study showed a significant and renewed interest in marriage. When Relevant Magazine covered the topic, they added that the desire for marriage has also increased significantly: 45 percent said they’d like to get married someday, compared to 33 percent in 2010. The qualifications for said potential partner, however, are increasing:

“Thirty-four percent now keep a checklist for a long-term partner, up from 25 percent in 2021. Half of Gen Z respondents said they research a date online before meeting them.”

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